Sadly, far too many people have bought the lie, “if he/she doesn’t make me happy I should go find  someone else who does”.

While we certainly hope that your spouse does not chronically made you ‘sad’, the truth of the matter is that it is not your spouse’s job to ‘make you happy’.

If your joy, peace and happiness is related to how people treat or don’t treat you; what they say or don’t say; or what they do or don’t do; then you will NEVER be happily married no matter who you are married to.